Ovarian Cancer Affects All
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Physicians are of course aware that a woman suffering with ovarian cancer needs to be treated not only for the disease, but also for potential emotional and psychological problems. Unfortunately, the family and familial caregivers are frequently not considered in this situation and the results are actually so adverse to the original patient, that it is somewhat curious why not more is being done to provide a support network early on.
Spouses in particular have presented with psychological and emotional impairments similar to the one observed in the ovarian cancer patient. Although this may appear to be a logical conclusion, researchers have found that there is a distinct correlation between the stage of treatment and the emotional and psychological condition of cancer patients and their spouses as well as caregivers. Studies conducted with the help of volunteers answering questions in the form of questionnaires and rating sheets helped to determine that the patient as well as her family experiences a similar quality of life.
Although it is simplistic to assert that cancer devastates entire families, it is crucial to remind patients and caregivers alike that while the whole family unit suffers, the whole family unit also needs to seek out and receive help. The patient may receive separate counseling and treatment as part of the overall ovarian cancer treatment, but the spouse – who quite frequently is also the primary caregiver – must also seek out counseling, support, and if necessary the help of psychotropic drugs.
Unfortunately, at times it is the very caregiver in need of the help who is refusing it the loudest. Asserting personal strength, emotional stability, and an unwillingness to admit to the depth of the effect the disease has on the person who is not actually physically suffering all contribute to a false stoicism that denies the desperate need for attention and assistance.
Ovarian cancer patients are urged to include their spouses in doctors' appointments and also in support meetings. Even as it is true that the spouses still need to have their own support network that is separate from that of their wives, those who are expressly included at the behest of their wives are showing a higher quality of life and an increased overall wellbeing than those who are not. In the same vein, these spouses are able to provide more consistent and nurturing care than the spouses who have not received any assistance and who are largely relying on their own strength for day to day survival.
Ovarian cancer affects patient, family and caregivers similarly and while it might not be feasible to offer the same kind of support network to all parties involved, some form of outside help must be vital component in combating the disease. Resources for those in need of help may be found at the local cancer center, physicians' offices, hospitals, and also the governmental social services offices. Copious online sources are also of tremendous help for those unsure where to turn but not quite ready yet to ask for help from a professional.
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